Weekend Winter Wonderland

This past weekend was jam-packed but one of the best in a while. Most of Thursday and Friday I spent getting ready for Art Club’s Studio Soiree event. We decorated the studio with snowflakes and paper lanterns to give the studio a cozy ambiance. Despite the rainy weather, we had a good turnout. People came together to munch on fancy treats like cream puffs and crackers with brie; and drank spiced hot cider. The mood was set by our amazing violinist and my friend Yue Xiu, who serenaded the studio with her beautiful melodies. It was a great night of craft making. We made holiday cards, pomander balls (oranges with cloves poked in that you put in sock drawers to make things smell nice), and decorated cookies! This was our third annual Studio Soiree and I’m happy my last one went so well. Afterwards, I went with some friends to the Bryn Mawr Concert Series to see Alex Winston. There was a small group of people who came but the people who did had a lot of fun because of Alex WInston’s energy and overall adorableness.

All decorated for the Studio Soiree

All decorated for the Studio Soiree

The next day, after a morning of volunteering, plans got shifted out of place for my friend Megha’s surprise birthday. She was supposed to study with me as people set up but since she had a lot of work and her books were at home, she just wanted to go home and due work. Her friends and I quickly gathered our wits to come up with an alternative plan to still surprise her. Luckily, our friend Linh was able to get Megha into the city while the rest of us ran around buying supplies, food, and drinks for the occasion. Her housemate let us into the apartment an hour early so we could help finish the cake and do final preparations. When Megha arrived home, she was definitely surprised and thankful. We even had her friend Lisa skype in from abroad! We ate South Indian and Chinese food and indulged in some coffee chocolate cake for dessert. It goes to show how important it is to appreciate and celebrate your friends even when you’re stressed from finals! Afterwards, I met up with some friends to forget the cold weather and enjoy a tropical paradise themed Senior Cocktails. Again, a low turnout because of the weather and people doing work but I had a ton of fun taking pictures and being silly with my friends.

Delicious South Indian food and Chinese food for Megha!

Delicious South Indian food and Chinese food for Megha!

The next day, I went out with two friends for my first dim sum experience! It ended up being quite an adventure because once we arrived in Philly; it started snowing! I had heard that the forecast included snow but I had assumed this would only be a couple of flakes. Turns out we got several inches. I only had Converse on which was pretty uncomfortable but my friend Heidi was only wear Tevas and a sweatshirt in a rush to make the train. We made it to the restaurant but had to wait nearly an hour because our friend was caught in awful traffic due to an accident caused by the snow. Once we finally got to eat, I was so excited and happy as new and tasty food arrived at our table. I felt a little queasy from the greasiness from many of the fried dishes but I left full and contented. The trip back was quite an adventure. I was lucky to be able to make my train but friend Duong who was driving back to Kennett Square, which is normally a one hour drive, took four hours to get home because of the snow. I am just glad she was okay and wasn’t in an accident!

Ocean City Dim Sum

Ocean City Dim Sum

The snow can be dangerous and a hassle but it always makes campus look magical. It was fun to see my first year students get so excited about the snow because many of theme are from places like California and Texas so they had never experienced real snow. Snowmen and snow angels soon popped up everywhere on campus. Being a grouchy senior, I spent most of my time enjoying the snow from my carrel in the library but drinking hot chocolate while watching snow fall outside was a relaxing break from paper-writing.

View from my room

View from my room

Birthdays from Abroad

One of the hardest parts about being abroad for nearly seven months straight for me has been missing birthdays, holidays, and traditions. I am super excited for Christmas here in Denmark since they get super into it to help make the darkness at little cheerier. Other holidays like Fourth of July or Thanksgiving just don’t have the same significance in other countries however. Nothing quite compares to missing a close friend’s birthday however.

Holidays will come again each year but your friends and family only turn a certain age once. The hardest part is realizing you may never get to celebrate a birthday with a friend again. For my friends in the grade above, they will be graduated and off in the real world this time next year. Many of my friends are international students as well which means once they leave Bryn Mawr, they may be continents away in the next chapter of their lives. However in a way, this distance makes us appreciate the time we spend together even more and occasions like birthdays remind us that we will always be connected to one another despite national borders and time zone differences.

Whenever anyone asks me what the best part of Bryn Mawr is, I will without fail say “the community.” Every person on this campus is here to support you and encourage you to pursue your passions both in and out of the classrooms. I am always in awe of just how accomplished my friends are here: from working five jobs to winning prestigious fellowships to making a difference in their local communities. I had read about how you will find the people who will change your life at Bryn Mawr, and now I realize just how true that is after being more than halfway done with my college career so far. I would not be the person I am today without the friends I have met at Bryn Mawr.

Coincidentally, three of my closest friends have their birthdays in the next two weeks. Nothing quite compares to being with them in person but rather than mope about, I wanted to take a moment to celebrate the lives of these three Bryn Mawr women who have had such an impact on my life. So here’s a shout out:

Amelia (Sep. 14th)

Amelia and me at my birthday party last year

Amelia and I lived on the same hall my freshman year. Two years ago today I saw that it was her birthday and decided to make her a birthday poster to decorate her door despite the fact that I hadn’t talked to her past saying hello in the hall. A month later I invited her to go see two of our favorite bands: Joshua Radin and The Script in concert despite still not knowing her that well at this point. Any other person would have started avoiding such a creepy freshman like the plague at this point yet Amelia took me under her wing and has become one of my best friends ever since. Right before we left for winter break, I gave her a Christmas card with a secret, “ransom-style” note in the back asking her to be my Heller, a sophomore who gives a freshman a list of silly tasks to do during the tradition of Hell Week. She was the best Heller anyone could have ever asked for, making me do things like yell everything I said and even brought me Hope’s Cookies while spending the night in the library. She is the warmest and friendliest person you will ever meet with a smile that always lights up the room. The love and kindness she radiates gives her the ability to make friends with anyone she encounters. The quality I love the most about her is that she is able to find beauty in anything, which inspires me to examine the world with a new perspective. She was abroad last semester so it will have been a full year until the next time I see her but she has taught me that our friendship will endure all obstacles.

Bekah (Sep. 25th)

Bekah and me before the Supafun dance during customs week last year

Last year I was a customsperson, a sophomore who serves as a resource and mentor to a group of freshmen who live together on a hall, and Bekah was one of my freshman. We lived together on Brecon 4th, the top floor of the furthest dorm on campus. Brecon, especially the fourth floor, is well-known for its strong sense of community due to the solidarity of having to climb so many stairs. Bekah and I became insanely close as we experienced all ups and downs of our years together. Bekah is unbelievably strong and perseverant, always learning and growing from her experiences. She is so incredibly thoughtful and wonderful. She was always there when I needed to talk to someone or just needed a hug. I am counting down the days until we will be reunited again to stay up late chatting while procrastinating homework, going to all of the different events on campus and eating free food, and all the small moments of making root beer floats in the dining hall and making arts and crafts in Arnecliffe studio together.

Alia (Sep. 30th)

Alia and me at our final dinner before leaving Indonesia this summer

I met Alia this past summer in Indonesia as we were both interns through Haverford’s Center for Peace and Global Citizenship program. Although we have only known each other for a few months now, I feel as if I have know her my entire life after we navigated issues of race and privilege, learned a new language in a foreign country, and had endless adventures eating street food and finding dances and cultural events scattered around the city. She has a fiery passion that drives her to always try new things, meet new people, and of course, travel! I am always impressed by how well she carries herself and is able to adapt in a new environment. She is talented writer and always seems to have a way with words. I wouldn’t have survived this summer without her; being able to decompress and process all of my experiences with someone I could be completely comfortable around was invaluable aspect of the program for me. I have learned so much from her, especially in regards to our conversations on the interconnections between travels, identity, and the concept of home. Her advice and support continues to keep me sane as I live each day her in Denmark.

Love you three and can’t wait to be reunited together in the spring! Thanks for truly making Bryn Mawr “home” for me.